I know you now

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We stared into one another, he took everything in about me, and I him. How his hair is growing millimeter but millimetre each day, how inquisitive those once blurred eyes now are seeking my familiar stare and those lips that mirror his father’s. I wonder what he see’s in me?

It’s such a precious thing, within just a moment of time to realize how beautiful a mother and child bond. The magnitude of being a parent is unfathomable most times as we all carry on with our day. If we honestly always felt the gravity of raising a child every moment of everyday we would probably shatter under the inert force that is, being a parent. But we don’t, we grow, we blossom and we only falter on occasion only to rise more experienced than we were prior. Each day I become more confident as a mother and a parent. Each day I know my child a little more  and that brings me immeasurable amounts of joy.

I let the light of love into my heart and into my soul so that I can love deeper to those around me.

Blessings, Alexa.

 

Motherhood = unpredictability

Today my wee baby bear had his first immunizations!

This isn’t going to be an argument about immunizations, if you choose to or not to, it’s your choice and I’m never going to tell you your wrong, because you know best for your child.

Anyway. I have been nervous for a good couple of days now, constantly thinking about how he would react. How hard it would be to watch him and how am I going to deal with a huge routine shift when it finally feels like we are slowly but surely getting more sleep and predictability. We do what we can, at the end of the day we follow him and his needs. 

Needless to say as horrible as it was to see him crying due to a needle enter his wee thighs, it really was not as bad as my mind had manifested. The mind is such a powerful thing when in the head of an overtired mother!

Once we hit the fourth hour after his immunizations BANG he cried for a good hour! He’s never done that before! He ended up crying himself to sleep, which I guess is well needed. Even if it did break my heart!

Thankfully when Papa came home Torben calmed right down, and he’s been a very sleepy wee cub since, and he’s still eating find and all is right with the world. We even managed to watch Inception and eat a whole bowl of plain popcorn! Yay! Now it’s time to fall into the comfortable bed I’ve been thinking of since I left it this morning..

From one tired and relieved Mama bear, good night! Or good day.. All the love and support,

The Three Bears NZ.

The Parent Panic.

Being a first time parent is incredible! You couldn’t imagine life being more fulfilling. But you are learning on the job, and there are a few things that you can’t help but freak out about..

This constant stream of news about Trump, ISIS and global climate change has me thinking “What kind of world have we bought our son into?! You constantly wonder what the world will be like in 20 years time for your children, and to tell you the truth, I don’t like what I see.

mother-nature-artistic-wallpaperThere is a barrage of narrow minded pricks constantly asking the wrong questions just to prevent open minded people from creating a beautiful Mother Earth.

What is one mother meant to do? I’ll tell you now, you make the smallest difference, because even the smallest difference counts! Show your child that one human DOES make a difference. Recycle, use all of your left-overs, pick up a piece of rubbish on the side of the road, buy free-range eggs, stop eating meat every night, be kind to your fellow human, learn an alternative health method, ride your bike or walk more, take shorter showers and the list is endless! All you can do is be the best example you can muster!

The future generations need to be taught that this world really does have limited time, especially if we don’t look after our planet earth. The things our children will grow to see will be absolutely breathtaking, but they will also see what generations to pass have done to this beautiful planet.

If I can honestly say in 20 years time that my partner and I raised a kind, generous, open-minded human, I say job well done. Job well done to all of you parents who are currently working towards that or have already gotten to that milestone!

What are your “Parent Panic’s?” Leave your answer in the comments!

All the love and support,

The Three Bears NZ.